What Synchronicities Really Mean (It’s Not What You Think): Manifestation, Energy & Spiritual Sovereignty

What if synchronicities aren’t signs from the universe… but proof that you’re the one creating it?

In this episode of The Unity Code, Nicole breaks down the real meaning behind synchronicities—and why everything you’ve been told about them being “just a sign” is incomplete.

From a perfectly timed song in Boston to manifesting literal docks (yes, plural), this episode dives into the deeper mechanics of how energy, frequency, and consciousness interact to shape your reality in real time.

You’ll learn:

✦ Why synchronicities are actually micro manifestations
✦ The difference between being guided vs. co-creating with spirit
✦ How your energetic frequency continues forward into physical reality
✦ Why noticing patterns is the first step to intentional manifestation
✦ How to start using synchronicities instead of just observing them

This isn’t about waiting for signs anymore.
This is about understanding how reality responds to you.

If you’ve been seeing repeating numbers, patterns, or “coincidences” everywhere… this episode will change how you interpret them—and what you do next.

Because once you realize what synchronicities actually are, you stop asking “is this a sign?”
…and start asking “what do I want to create?”

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Nicole is an evidential medium and former corporate executive who blends data, systems, and spirit communication after her son began seeing the dead. She’s obsessed with exposing the hidden patterns and frequencies keeping you stuck, and recoding them so you can finally live the life your soul designed for you. She offers private readings, mentorship, and classes in mediumship, spiritual growth, and soul-aligned business. 

Click here to learn more & connect with Nicole: http://links.mediumnicole.com

Transcript

The Sunglasses Song In Boston

Redefining Synchronicity And Sovereignty

Continuation Turns Into Co Creation

Dolls Slides And Dock Manifestations

Dream Bigger And Share Your Stories

SPEAKER_00 1:11

Hello, everyone. Welcome back to the Unity Code podcast. As always, I'm your host, Nicole, and it is my job today to convince you that synchronicities are simply micro moments of manifestation. Yeah, I'm starting the podcast with that much alliteration today. I want to talk about synchronicities, and this has been an idea that has been bubbling around in my energetic field for quite a long time now. And I think I'm finally ready to land this conversation with all of you to talk about what synchronicities are, give you some examples, talk about how I used to think about synchronicities, what I know now, and what that means for you in your energetic reality. Seriously, buckle up. This is like mind-blowing. This is how long sometimes it takes me to take these energetic frequencies that most people have a common understanding of, and my team breaking them apart, and me waiting for my team to break them apart and break them down and help me really understand what these truly are, besides the really simple, really easy explanation because synchronicities are so much fucking deeper than you could ever imagine. So let's go. Let's go. So this weekend I was in Boston with my daughter. We ended up seeing a Beauty and the Beast play on Broadway. It was freaking awesome. And then we went to the Verb Hotel. I'm gonna shout it out specifically because it's an amazing hotel if you're ever in the Boston area. It's right next to Fenway Park. It's like an old Hojo's, like Howard Johnson's from the 1950s that they converted. And it's this really awesome vibe of music and bands and paraphernalia, and all of the rooms have record players in it. Like as a local person, I am willing to pay the money to stay there overnight because it is so freaking cool. And by the way, they have an outdoor pool that is heated year-round. So if you have littles in the city and you're looking for a pool, that's a really cool one. And they heat it really, really well in the winter. So as we wrapped up our play and made our way over to the Verb Hotel, right around the corner from there, another locals tip is Target. Now, I realize we all know what Target is. However, it is the best Target because when you go into Target in the cities, you can go into the clothing area and they will have the sports team gear at a significant discount than buying it anywhere else. So whenever we go into the city, I always up on my Red Sox, my Bruins, my Celtics, right? Um gear, Patriots. Eh. I like them. I'm over it. Um, so I'll always up on the gear while we go there. So we get to the hotel, we walk a couple of blocks down to go to Target, and while we're there, we are checking out the sunglasses right next next to the register. My daughter is with me. We need some new sunglasses for her. This wicked cool pair catches my eye. It is reminiscent of the 80s. It is cat eye to the extreme, and it is just really cool looking. So I pick that up. I have her try it on. We know it's a 10 out of 10. So we add it to our bill, we start walking back to the hotel, and my daughter is freaking strutting her stuff. She is 10 now, going on 37, and she is now dressed as a 10-year-old in full goth attire, currently obsessed with Twilight, and really going through this beautiful era of just expressing uniquely who she is. And she's probably about four years ahead of all of the girls in her grade. So she is feeling outside of this moment, you know, a little lonely, a little isolated, a little out of place, just like probably a lot of you beautiful souls that are listening to this podcast because you are all beautiful and unique in your own way. And so as she is strutting her stuff, and I am fucking loving the fact that she loves herself, loves her energy, loves who she is. And these glasses, these sunglasses are a perfect representation of who she is. We're walking by the outdoor Cisco brew yard, brewery garden that they have there. And no word of a lie, the band that is playing on stage is playing the song. That was the exact line of she's got design of shades just to hide your face, and you wear them around like you're cooler than me. And like literally at the moment that we are walking by and she is wearing her brand new sunglasses, these are the synchronicities that blow my fucking mind. Because in what world is this even logical that she would find a pair of sunglasses that are finally perfect for her? Looked everywhere in Puerto Rico, looked everywhere else, and then as we are walking out with the perfect sunglasses, we're passing this band at this exact moment in this exact location in Boston, and this band is there playing the exact song to represent what actually just happened in our physical reality. These are synchronicities. Synchronicities are this idea of two different things that are happening at the same at a same time or a similar time that are directly related but yet totally separate from each other. Another example I like to give is just like there's so many. The reason why I'm hesitating is that it's so many. So another example that I share quite a quite a bit is watching, for example, the end of Top Gun Maverick, and it's Tom Cruise at the end with that silver Porsche, and then watching that at home, and then leaving to go to like Walmart or some local store out here in the boondocks of Massachusetts, and seeing that exact same silver Porsche out on my local roads with by the white potholes the size of like icebergs. Like, like it's it's wild the sizes. So you wouldn't want to. Yes, that was me making farting sounds with my noise, trying to decipher what spirit is showing me in my head. So you wouldn't want to ride or drive a super fancy car around here because there's potholes and you're just gonna bottom out, right? Anyway, bringing us back. Um, these are the ideas of the synchronicity. So the other synchronicities that I see all the time, and by the way, in my mind, a synchronicity is you have to see it in two different formats, um, in two different locations. It doesn't matter if it's the same exact thing, but it has to be very, very similar and it has to like reflect back on each other, right? It's a mirror in two different areas. And so other ways that I will constantly see synchronicities is I am saying a word and reading a word. I am hearing a word and I am seeing a word. Um, I'm and it's the same with numbers, it's the same with ideas. And I often know, and I'm gonna get into this in a little bit, that I'm doing what I should be doing because I'm seeing these synchronous things happening in multiple areas of my reality. Now, when I started on this beautiful journey, I thought of signs and synchronicities as the exact same thing. And a lot of people will take the idea of synchronicities and they will think that it is a beautiful nod from spirit, a hello from spirit, a sign, a message from spirit, that they're on the right path. They're doing what they should be doing. And it's almost like this little nod from spirit that you're exactly on the path and doing the things that you're supposed to be. I thought this for a very long time as well. And you will probably go back into the archives of my social media and see me with videos saying the exact same thing. And I think this is part of the beauty of the evolution of working with spirit, is at the time that's how I understood it to be. But what I know now is that synchronicities are so much deeper, so much more meaningful than just a nod from spirit. And I think that a lot of the talk track that I used to talk about with signs and synchronicities is I don't want to use the word disempowered, but I think there's this belief as you start to open up to spirituality, as you start to have your spiritual awakening, as you start working with the invisible other side, that they know exactly what you're supposed to be doing. They're the ones kind of directing your life, and that they're the ones giving you the nod. The guides are giving you the nod that, yeah, you're doing what we want you to do. You're on the right path. And so there is a lot of disempowerment language that comes with early spirituality, assuming that your path is already laid out. Yeah, it's probably true, but let's not talk about that for a second. That your guides are trying to send you down certain rabbit holes, which is also absolutely true. But a lot of it comes from I just have to show up and do what they're asking me to do. And you see that a lot reflected in some of my clients that come to me that are on the newer side of the house, to be honest with you. And I again, I'm I'm calling a spade a spade because I was that client at one point where I was like, what am I supposed to be doing? Where am I supposed to be going? And so getting these signs and synchronicities are a beautiful way for me at the time to know that I'm doing what I should be doing. And so, do I think that the definition of synchronicity was wrong as I started this journey? No, I think it was appropriate for me at the time. But as I have grown and evolved and changed, so has my relationship with synchronicities and my understanding of them as I bring more of my spiritual sovereignty back into myself and realizing that spirit is not setting my path that is a co-creation with me and spirit. And they can try to push and shove me, but ultimately at the end of the day, I have to agree to it. I have to decide that I want to continue this path and that I have to agree that this path is for me. Um, this is not just a, they tell me what to do, and I'm an order taker and I'm gonna go do it because have you met me? That would never work with me and my energy at all, at all. So this idea of synchronicity has been floating around in the ether for quite a while now. And when something doesn't feel right to me, it feels incomplete, it doesn't have that thud of something landing. And it feels like there's this continuation of energy in this, like, I don't have all the pieces to the puzzle yet. And that's how I felt about this topic for quite a long time. And then a few weeks ago, it finally hit me. As my team was talking about synchronicities, they sent me the word continuation. Why did they send me that one word? Number one, it was incomplete, isn't that fun? But it allowed me to start thinking outside the box in terms of what I understood was synchronicities. But it was a wonderful starting point because I started to realize that when you have synchronicities, you're continuing the energy forward. And I promise this will go into the manifestation part in a moment. Many of you who are psychic, are you're probably psychic listening to this, you're gonna probably know where I'm going from this. But they started using the word continuation when we started talking about synchronicities. Because I had bought the sunglasses, the energy naturally continued forward into the band. As I saw the silver Porsche on the TV screen, that same energy continued forward into seeing a silver Porsche in my physical 3D reality. And so I started to ponder this idea of continuation and I started to bounce that against my original ideas about how it is a continuation of energy that again, I'm on the right path. But as you might feel as I say those words, that also didn't feel completely right. And so I sat with this idea of the energy continuing forward as I would see it again with the words that would show up at the same time I was hearing it on a song. And all of these other ways that these beautiful synchronicities showed up. But then I started to realize and question was I continuing the energy? Was I maintaining my energetic frequency so much that I know that I'm not necessarily on the right path anymore, but I'm maintaining the energetic vibration from past to future. And that felt better. That felt a little more right. But what really landed for me was what if it's not just about continuing the vibrations and energetic frequencies? What if I co-created that experience by having a micro manifestation to call in a reflection of my reality in a different way? What if I have set the vibrational frequency out there that my daughter looks fucking amazing in her sunglasses and I manifested the universe reciprocating and agreeing with that by a song? What if the synchronicity is not a reflection of your vibration, but a reaction to your energetic frequency? It changes the whole fucking game, doesn't it? It changes the whole fucking conversation about synchronicities because a synchronicity is a reflection of how fucking powerful you are to manifest the future in a very small micro short-term way to show you how powerful you are. And I have to reflect back to you about the types of people, the types of souls that recognize synchronicities. Because I don't know about you. I mean, there's a lot of people in my reality, obviously, given I am in a lot of spiritual circles that do recognize it. But out there in my muggle life, in my everyday life, no one's talking about synchronicities. And so the people that are recognizing the synchronicity, I think it's a perfect, perfect example of how tuned into spirit you are if you're noticing these things. And if you're tuned into spirit and you're noticing the synchronicities that are happening, you're noticing the patterns that are happening in the universe. Don't you think that, again, we need to reclaim our sovereignty and realizing that our mind is manifesting the future, our energy is manifesting reality as we know it. Because that's what consciousness is. Consciousness is rewriting the codes of reality. That's why this podcast is named the Unity Code, because you can start to realize the power that you have in manifesting in your energetic frequency. And once your energetic frequency is so high that you're seeing these synchronicities all the time, that is the universe telling you to fucking dream, dream bigger. Go after things, realize your manifestation power and stop worrying about the little things and start thinking about the huge goals, the destination, the journeys that you want to go on, and start setting your intentions and your energy towards those. Because if I can make a song show up, a song, which is already pretty powerful indeed, right? Because again, I have to be in the right place, I have to be in the right time. That Cisco beer garden was not there last year. Right? Somebody had to take that spot, build that spot. The previous tenant had to move out from that spot. That band had to sign up with Cisco to be there. That band had to be on stage at the exact time, which by the way was in the middle of the Red Sox Yankees game. So, I mean, there were people there, but probably not prime time to play. They probably want to save their set for after the game lets out when there's more people in the beer garden. But no, the universe allowed me to manipulate the frequencies so that that band was playing that song at that moment that I walked by. And this is where I start to really oh, like pull this psychedelic brain fog that happens in my mind when I think about all of the things that had to happen for that synchronicity to be true. Did it happen to me or did I make it happen? And I feel like it's the latter. And so I asked on my Instagram stories today, don't mind my as I bring up my phone, for others to tell me stories about synchronicities so that I could essentially prove this idea, this topic, this idea that synchronicities are actually a micro-manifestation, proving your power in the vibrational frequency that you have to create and co-create reality with the universe. So, my beautiful, amazing best friend Kim, who, by the way, is the amazing fucking human that makes my hair look gorgeous all the time. She's a goddess unto her own. Um, she's one of the nicest, most amazing people you'll ever met. Cannot speak enough about her. You need a hairdresser, hairstylist, hair artist in Central Mass. You give me a call. I'll give you her deeds. You gotta go to her. But she was just in Florida for spring vacation, and she said she had gone out to a bar and they had an auction for ceramic dolls. She put in a bid for it and for the two dolls, and they they bought them for I believe a dollar each. And as she brought them home to her mother-in-law's house, they were packing up her things, and in the last box that they were packing up was her porcelain dolls. Right? Kim never, ever, ever sees or is near porcelain dolls. Not at all. And so the fact that she went to this bar, bought two porcelain dolls. Yeah, they were creepy as fuck, by the way. Um, and then proceeded to go and help her mother-in-law who lived nearby, pack up her things, and in that last box were porcelain dolls. Think about all of the things that had to line up in terms of this micro manifestation for more dolls to appear. She wanted the dolls so much that she bit on them and paid money for them, right? That is a signal to the universe of buy my book, right? Like, buy my buy my doll. I want to, I want more of these in my life. I'm choosing the vibration of porcelain dolls so much that I'm gonna put financial energy into it. And think about this. It wasn't just one doll she found, it was a box of porcelain dolls that she found. A box. The universe said, you want two, we'll give you 17. That is a micro manifestation. So thank you, Kim, for validating my point about synchronicities being not only a continuation of energy, but also a micro manifestation of energy. And so for those of you that don't pay attention, Your job is to start noticing synchronicities. Your job is to start noticing where you are seeing and hearing the same thing at the same time. When you are, you know, seeing a purple bicycle as you scroll through social media and then you drive through town and see a physical personal bicycle, a purple bicycle in your 3D experience. Start noticing the patterns of the universe. This is step one to changing the fright vibrational frequencies of your reality. If you're not paying attention to what vibrational frequencies already exist, you're not going to be able to manipulate them in order to bring you into the manifestation mode that we're talking about. So step one is to start fucking noticing them. And then for those of you that do notice the synchronicities and do see them all the time, start questioning and getting curious about what else you can manifest. Because it doesn't have to start with you receiving or being in the energy of something and then seeing something else. That is the universe setting you up to see the potential of manifestation that you have. And they will show it to you over and over and over again until you get it. And so for those of you that are seeing the manifestation, fucking up the ante. Start writing down. Start envisioning, start meditating on the things that you want to bring into your life, the manifestation that you want into your life. I think a wonderful example of this is I would play this with the universe. Have we all heard about the Jim Carrey story with the bike when he was a little kid? He wanted a brand new red, whatever it was, huffy. I don't know what kind of bike it was, bike, and he was a poor, poor kid. And like a week later, that bike showed up in his living room because his friend put a ticket in and he won the bike. The exact bike that he manifested. Okay. Mm-hmm. Two or three years ago, I played that game with the universe. I on my little lake house wanted a slide for my pontoon boat. And if you go online and you look at these, they're like five, six hundred dollars. And I'm like, ugh, they'll probably use it twice. I don't want to spend the money on that. If they were gonna use it multiple summers in a row, fine. You know, price per slide, very cheap investment. But I didn't want to pay that. And so I put it out in the universe. I said, I want that slide. I want that slide. Bring it to me. Within 24 hours, that exact slide was posted for free on Facebook Marketplace. And I was the first person to respond, and I picked it up and it was free. Okay. Hilarious story. I'm gonna tell this again later. So just ignore or forget, have amnesia after I tell you the story. My doc this winter. Tell it now, they're saying. My dock this winter. Oh I tell it, right? Team's like, yeah, go ahead. I see this is what's going on in my energy. Is I want to tell it, but then I have this sinking feeling. So, but that's also because my dock sank, everybody. So this winter my dock sank in the icy waters of New England, and we needed to buy a new dock. And I told my husband, we need a new dock. And he's like, No, no, no, it'll be fine. I'll fix it. I'll fix it. This is an old wooden dock. It's been there for probably 30 years. We it's fine, we'll figure it out. He goes out to the lake house and he's like, Fuck, we need a new dock. And I was like, I know, I told you so. So we now have the manifest manifesting frequency that we need a new dock. Two days later, our lake house neighbor says, We don't want our floating dock anymore. Do you want it? We manifested a dock. Hang on, I'm not done. I laugh about it. And I said, Do you see what you did? You and I together setting the attention of us wanting a dock. We got a dock. It wasn't the dock that we wanted, but we got a dock. And my husband, who's who uh is really funny about all this stuff, I think he he I amuse him with with this thinking that I can manifest things, right? So I start laughing and I said, and and my husband says, You we need to obviously get more specific with our request. And I said, You're absolutely right. So I said, Okay, so you and I right now are gonna set the intention that we need a dock that we can park our boat on. And he says, Okay, so now we have the combined vision of a dock that we can park our boat on. Two days later, someone on the lake Facebook group posts there 30-foot dock for free that we can park our boat at. I see it as I kind of open my eyes at like 6 a.m., scrolling through Facebook on my phone, and I immediately text him. He's like already at work. I text him, I'm like, you need to do is this what look at this. Do we need it? Someone had already taken the dock, but we manifested the actual dock that we needed for to replace our boat dock. By the way, the husband said no because he wants an L-shaped dock. Jesus Christ, this guy. I swear to God. Um, he this is what it's like live. I am so chill compared to my husband. He's like, no, I want this dock and I want it five feet wide and I want an L-shape and I want a platform at the end that I can put chairs on. He's fucking high maintenance, everybody. So I'm like, okay, fine. So we let that dock go. And we're like, okay, so so for shits and giggles, I want to manifest an L-shaped dock just for fun, just to see what we can get. And at this point, I'm kind of laughing about it because we've already manifested two fucking docks. Two docks. I mean, these docks are thousands of dollars each, right? No word of a fucking lie. He is walking the dog two days later. And he runs into a local dock company that was scoping out someone else's dock, but they were lost on one of the back roads that we live on. So he runs into a dock company that is purposely in the wrong place, but exactly the right time for my husband to run into them, gets the guy's card, he gives us a deal on the exact dock that we want. You can't make this shit up. He manifested the exact doc that you want. Next time I'm gonna say I want it for free, though. The universe gave me the handouts, and my husband is too persnickety to actually want it, right? Like, geez of crow. So, this is what I'm talking about with manifestation. What do you want? What do you want? I'm like that. Oh god, I'm like the dude in the notebook. What do you want? What do you want? What do you want? The universe is literally sitting here saying, What do you want? If you are seeing these synchronicities, let them fucking come up to the challenge of that. Write down what you want. Set the intention of what you want manifest in your reality. Obviously, according to my story, be specific. And then sit back and let the universe deliver it. Because some of you, you're not dreaming big enough. You're not seeing that this entire reality is fucking fake. It is a dreamlike state. It is the matrix in which we get to write the codes of reality and co-creation with the universe, with spirit, with God. Are you ready to give them a chance to show you how magical life can fucking be? Hmm? So here's what I want. I want stories. I want manifestation stories. I want to invite some of you on the podcast to fucking talk about this. Please, if you have stories about how you're starting to see synchronicities, starting to receive these manifestations, you asked for a brown cow and someone dropped off a brown cow for you at your house. I want to hear about it. Send it to me. There's a new area on my website. Obviously, you can message me on the socials and all that stuff. But on my website under about, there is a button called get in touch. Get in touch. Send me a note. Send me an email. You can click that you're talking on talk on on behalf of the Unity Code podcast. I want to know. I want to know. I want to know the magic because I want to normalize talking about these crazy fucking experiences. Because I have that problem myself, right? I always caveat the with my ego leading the way, being like, this is gonna be a crazy story. I'm gonna sound crazy right now, right? And I see it in myself, I see it in my students, I see it in people that are just starting to open the can of worms that is spirituality. And I'm just let's normalize talking about these freaking stories. Because something incredible happens when you bring together all of our manifestation frequencies. And this is another, ooh, ding ding ding ding ding ding ding ding ding. My my um my deadbell's on, but it's not dinging, but it's dinging in my head. You have something that you need to manifest, send it my way too. Maybe we'll do like a manifestation episode where we are all setting the intention of helping you manifest the fucking house of your dreams, the job of your dreams. Let's talk about it. I will add that as a social media post. And I'll just have you all like all the different things that other people want to manifest to show that you're putting your energy into that manifestation. You're putting your energy into that manifestation. Because it's gonna be really fucking powerful. Because just like with my husband and I, when you amplify the energies, everything gets amplified. Your ability to manifest becomes amplified. Which is why my husband and I together, we can manifest fucking anything. I've seen it happen over and over and over and over again because our frequencies are so aligned, and when we have the same frequency aligned to the same manifestation goals, magic happens every time. Every time. So, what are you gonna manifest? I want to know. I want to hear the stories, keep me posting. I can't wait to continue this conversation with all of you. I am definitely gonna continue more conversations about manifestation because uh, ooh, there's so much to the energetic frequency and codes underneath manifesting because it's not what you think it is. But we'll just start here. We'll start here now, just to show you the magic of how it works. And then I'll show you how to be more intentional in manifestation, more accurate in manifestation, so that you too can be blessed with three docs. That's all I had for y'all. Have a wonderful fucking day. You are an amazing fucking human. And don't forget that you have an incredible spiritual team behind you every single day supporting the incredible journey you're on. Take care.